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Clear, friendly guides to help you understand your options and ask the right questions.

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Guides by need

  • Private evaluations

    A private evaluation looks at how your child learns, focuses, communicates, or grows. The results can help you and the school choose the right support.

    • Ask what the evaluation covers and what the report includes
    • Share past reports and teacher notes beforehand
    • Request a written summary you can bring to school meetings

  • IEPs and 504 plans

    An IEP (Individualized Education Program) is a written plan for specialized instruction at school. A 504 plan lists accommodations, such as extra time, so a student can fully take part. Schools decide eligibility for each.

    • You can ask the school for an evaluation in writing
    • Keep copies of every request, report, and meeting note
    • You may bring a trusted person to meetings

  • Therapies

    Occupational therapy (OT), physical therapy (PT), speech therapy, applied behavior analysis (ABA), and counseling each support different skills. The right fit depends on your child's goals and your routine.

    • Ask how progress is tracked and shared with you
    • Ask about session length, location, and virtual options
    • Check credentials and licensing before you start

  • Academic support

    Tutoring works best when it targets one skill and fits how your child learns. Short, regular sessions often work well.

    • Name the goal first: reading, math, writing, or test prep
    • Ask for a short trial session
    • Check in with your child's teacher on what is working

  • Child care and nannies

    Trust and fit matter most. Meet first, ask questions, and check references before you decide.

    • Check references and ask about background checks
    • Agree on routines, schedules, and how you will communicate
    • Start with a trial period

  • Camps and enrichment

    Camps, sports, and activities build confidence and friendships. Look for a program that fits your child's pace and interests.

    • Ask about staff-to-child ratios and staff training
    • Ask how the program supports each child's needs
    • Visit or take a virtual tour if you can

Questions to ask any provider

Bring this list to your first call.

  1. 1What experience do you have with children like mine?
  2. 2How will you share progress with me?
  3. 3What are your credentials, licenses, or certifications?
  4. 4What does a typical session or day look like?
  5. 5What are your fees, cancellation terms, and availability?
  6. 6Can you provide references?

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